There is no ULTIMATE WAY, the magic bullet as it were, that will work on every girl/guy. Every person is different and therefore will not react the same to the same thing. The best that u can hope for is what will work with most. This differs from different cultures, but here in AMerica its quite easy: Be what he/she wants u to be. I'm not talking about changing who u r, the idea is to make the other person believe that u r this fantasy person that dosen't actually exist. People, for the most part, don't want the truth, they want what they want. If u can fool a person that u r this perfect person that they've only seen in TV/movies, then they will do the rest by fooling themselves into thinking they have found that perfect someone.
Let me be clear: I am saying deceive him/her. I DO NOT condone that type of behavior, but its what will work with most people that u will encounter. Sad, but true. I personally think that its because people don't want to face the reality. The reality is that relationships, and this is true for friends, family, and lovers, are not a packaged deal. U don't get everything, no assembly required with a money back guarentee. It takes ALOT of work to maintain them and it never stops. Not even after u get married. Marriage is no guarrentee of happiness. Most don't want to put in that kind of effort. They want a simple solution, even though they subconsiously know there isn't one, and others take advantage of that.
People r just too afraid to show who they really r, cause they don't really like themsleves. If u can't like yourself, then why should anybody else? U gotta love yourself. Most people don't, most people hate themselves.
I'll make u a deal: U love me, if I love u.
